Three’s (really) company in the end.
I’m the third nostril in my home.
We have two speeds when it comes to communicating:
Vapid
OR
Screaming at one another.
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so sorry…I don’t understand…you fight a lot there?
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I don’t understand what you mean. Can you be more specific?
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I was dishing about my folks.
It’s hard living with people.
We fight and I get blamed for speeding things up or raising voice.
You’ll like this part I hope:
I’ve on many occasions said I need to wear a body cam in order to reach fairness.
I’ve also said for my folks to put their grievances in an email. I could see it then, and remember it better. We run the household like it’s a company anyway.
And we paper over each fight with small talk the next morning.
Funniest thing is this is the “low hanging fruit” I could think of, I’m actually not in any pressing mood to disparage my folks.
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As long as they’re not abusive, try to remind yourself they won’t be around forever and so try to cherish what time you do have with them
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Please drop your concern in the suggestion box and I will respond in 7-10 business days. 
I am sorry though, really. It is hard to live with people. I’m glad you seem to be able to keep a sense of humor despite the fighting.
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