My mother in law said again I shouldn’t be on meds, that soon the government will stop paying for them and if I take the mark I will burn forever in hell
You need to get out of there. They’re abusive and manipulative. It’s not healthy for you to stay there.
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Yes. Please leave! This is not right the way they treat you and your partner!
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I don’t think I’ve been a part of this forum long enough to know the back story of your family but that woman sounds evil.
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My therapist and I talked about it. She wants to talk more about it next time. She said being assertive might not be enough but also learn to not be so polite to those who demean me.
I got so use to being mistreated by not just my in laws but my family before them.
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You are much more respectable than this!
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that is very good advice 
i hope it helps you
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I don’t understand what mark did she think you’ll have to take?
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I hope you guys get that other house. Keeping my fingers crossed.
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This is a very valuable thing to learn, it can literally save you from a lot of unnecessary heartache.
You can’t control what others do to you, but you can control how you respond to them.
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I have no clue. She still thinks me and her niece are possessed.
I had to cut my mother in law out of my life for a year for her to get that my life is none of her business. She finally leaves me alone about me being on meds.
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Ugh, I’m so sorry. As if this illness on its own wasn’t bad enough, you have unsupportive jerks to deal with too. 
I really hope you can get out of there.
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The house is still in limbo, but if we do get the house we have clean up the yard because there is a huge pile of trash in the back.
My partner is very supportive but still just says that whatever is said by her parents just dont respond and ignore it.
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Her opinion is surplus to requirements.
It’s not needed.
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yeah. i hope the house is ours soon. but haven’t heard anything back yet. rent for the 4 bedroom house is just 550 a month there use to be two bathrooms but that was before it was turned into just one house instead of two apartments. i would rather just close off the upstairs since i can’t go up and down stairs very well because of my ankle.
today i finally convinced my inlaws to take their shih tzu to the groomers she needed it badly but they got mad at me because she had some knots but i can’t brush her multiple times a day when i have 11 other animals to take care of
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