My husband doesn’t like me to be on the forum because

Is he a normie? Tell him we rarely leave normies for sz.

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Yes he’s normal. But he is disabled, just physically

Might help explaining to him that this is therapeutic for you.

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Maybe he feels you spend too much time on here.

IMO you don’t need to have sex with someone to cheat on a spouse. Maybe he’s worried you have an ‘emotional friend,’ type thing going on.

Some people would argue that would be worse than an on-the-side sex partner.

But they’re both bad.

Maybe reinforce your feelings for him by telling him how you feel about him. Idk…

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You could show him the official rules, if you like. They explicitly prohibit dating and offsite communication.

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The rules and guidelines can be found here

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Thanks @ninjastar

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Disappointing. You’re not a flirt at all and are a very responsible poster. It’s a shame he doesn’t trust you.

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Nobody’s hitting on you though. That’s kind of overprotective.

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Tell your husband that we’re not exactly catches. Its annoying to see you being pressured to alienate a support group for this “potential” problem. It shows a lack of trust. I think your husband just needs to rethink why he’s worried.

We’re just people online. We aren’t doing anything other then trying to be supportive.

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@Ryanana @agent101g @velociraptor
My husband has been married twice before. He got cheated on both times. That’s why it bothers him

That’s unfortunate. I just don’t get the concept of marrying someone if you’re not going to give them complete trust. If my wife really wants to hang with male friends, that’s her biz. I trust her to know where the lines are that shouldn’t be crossed. I’ve got some friends who are female, but there’s nothing sexual at all. They just happen to be female and we get along well. You lose out on knowing interesting people who will enrich your life if you limit yourself to a single gender for close friends.

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Hmm… my ex gf cheated on me too. I left her.
Guess what, I found a girl who loathes cheating with all her heart. And we trust each other.
I think you need to have a talk with your husband and let him know that his jealousy and insecurity offend you.

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I dislike myself just for posting this, and will probably take oxygen out of the room, but I hope it has nothing to do with me trying to help you a lot the other day, and showing internet machismo…

Sometimes I feel like a counterpart to your narrative, but it’s probably a false equivalency. But that’s what gets me taking a healthy interest right or wrong.

I’ve said gender stuff on here, and you haven’t given up on me… additionally.

It’s just the timing has me paranoid that I mattered in a bad way.

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Oh that’s too bad @ZmaGal.
I hope you don’t leave the forum.

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I hope I don’t need to. I’ll keep talking to him about it though. I really like it here.

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I’m sorry this triggers you @anon64158233

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No I’m ok… I can put air back in the room too.

Idk maybe I shouldn’t have said anything. You’re valuable though with all your contributions on this site.

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Thanks @anon64158233

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sad to hear he thinks like that. This is support place i’d say, not a place you go looking to date people.

I hope you stay too =)

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