I have a friend who has had drug and alcohol addiction and i’ve been to drama classes with her.
I have met and know the guy a bit, i feel like I am going to put myself at risk if i assist her - not that it’s a selfish concern that is stopping me
He has posted lots of letters and poems about 3 times a week he lives very near… on social media he has got a cat because she said she liked cats and he’s got one and invited her over. he’s wearing the same jewellery as her tattoos and he’s not stopped after she said she wanted him to stop cos she has no interest and never will
he’s not stopped - recently he posted on his twitter - her picture of her looking shock / afraid / exaggerated selfie, he’s shown off to her (ages ago now ) that he was in trouble with the law for trying to kill someone when he was 15 - so obviously he’s always been a creep.
I have told her i’m concerned and would go to a wpc with her
i’ve told her to take a screen shot of this profile pic of his, (her selfie) for evidence. she’s kept all the letters… but not afraid - thinks he’s weird not dangerous
i don’t know what else to do
i found a good website of what to do about stalkers. which i forwarded.
But i think she’s very blasé she was in a 21 year abusive relationship. i read that stalking can go on as long as 45 years… i don’t think she wants that i wish i could get her to get a restraining order or something where he’d be in real trouble if he breaks it
they still go to the same drama group (i don’t any more) and they have the same circle of friends and are always bumping into each other.
Ahh just to be certain i am schizophrenic and i’m worried