Toward me and his 15 year old. She says he gaslights and doesn’t respect boundaries. I’m shocked because I don’t agree at all. He treats me better than I’ve ever been treated in my life. I told her that. I really just don’t agree at all. She didn’t have good examples either.
2 Likes
Pretty bizarre thing for them to say.
1 Like
Yeah. I don’t know what to make of it
2 Likes
Maybe she just doesn’t like him?
1 Like
Is she jealous of his attention maybe? You have talked before of how kind your husband is to you.
2 Likes
Maybe. But they’ve always gotten along and he goes out of his way for her all the time
2 Likes
Maybe @Loke. I’ll have to watch for that
1 Like
Maybe her boundaries are the problem, maybe they are unreasonable, maybe she is too sensitive. It is not reasonable to expect everyone to respect everyone else s boundaries all the time. If I had to alter my behaviour for everyone I would be miserable and so would anyone else that did that.
2 Likes
Y’all been married a while though right? Did this just come up out of the blue? I mean that’s confusing
1 Like
I agree @Headspark
1 Like
Yes. We’ve been together for 8 years. She used to say he was really nice. Then just now she says that
1 Like
Wait. How old is she? After my daughter turned 13 she hated the world.
She’s 21 years old
1 Like
Hmmm 
1616151515
1 Like
She is young so you’ll have to teach her by example. Next time she crosses your boundaries or someone else’s boundaries ask her why she isn’t altering her behaviour in the way she expects your husband to alter his. Point out her hypocrisy, maybe that will teach her to be more reasonable. It’s not okay for her to do what she wants while expecting everyone to cave to her demands.
1 Like
My daughter actually said it out of love and concern. She’s a good person.
1 Like
She’s not demanding at all. I’ve never seen her demand anything
She’s not taking domestic violence awareness classes is she? I remember right after I took self defense classes I saw danger in every corner for a while.
1 Like
Maybe she is seeing something you aren’t. People outside of a relationship often see things you miss from the inside.
4 Likes
She has been reading a lot of stuff like that lately. She’s interested in psychology and sociology
1 Like