After over a year of waiting I finally saw the colorectal specialist this evening
My back passage is damaged and it’s likely due to the tear I had giving birth and it’s all likely they wrongly graded the tear.
I have emailed my solicitor and will await the letter with the drs findings so I can also forward the letter to solicitor.
I am waiting now to be passed onto other specialists. I may have to do some biofeedback or even have surgery to repair it.
I hope they can help you soon. 
Ty @HollyHobby I hope they can help too cos it’s a very embarrassing problem and causes me distress.
It could be worse the damage. And I could have lost my son in the process but we are both here now to tell the tail
Wow.
I’m sorry to hear about all the stuff you’ve had to go through with this…
Hang in there!
Moving to Health and Recovery.
its been a rough ride @Wonderer but we will make them pay for what happened.
You and your family deserve to be set for life. You guys have been through so much.
They only picked up on the tear the next day right? Terrible
Ty @el_Jimbobbio I am concerned about babies development at the moment. I think he should be saying more words. It could be he is a bit slow cos of what happened (he is lucky he doesn’t have cerebral palsy)
We see his paediatrician on the 1st may so I shall bring this up to him and see what we can do.
Try your best not to worry. Kids are tough and develop at different rates. Like you say you have avoided cerebral palsy.
You guys are a team and you will get through this!
I’m sorry it took so long to get help. Hopefully things start moving in the right direction now.
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