Moving out at 38

That’s the plan for next year. However i won’t move in with him until i got my job sorted because i don’t wanna be a burden in his house… he doesn’t think i would but i don’t feel comfortable because i would be relying on him 100% financially.…


My unsolicited advice… Don’t wait for the job thing. Go and live with him if that’s what you both want, and trust him when he says you wouldn’t be a burden. All too often we needlessly sacrifice our happiness when we don’t have too. Take him at his word that he doesn’t think you’ll be a burden.

Go! Be happy! Stop holding off on what you want, and there is zero reason you can’t work on stable employment while living with your partner. Don’t let life pass you by.