Mother's Day Blues. Again

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Mother’s Day isn’t a fun day for everyone.

Including some mothers.

It’s always a time of very mixed feelings for me.

I get weepy a lot and dread thinking of my son, in school, probably being asked about his mother, being encouraged to make mother’s day crafts with his fellow students.

He’s old enough to understand the situation now.

To some extent.

I wonder if its a painful time for him too.

I think I’m going to email the guys and see if we can set up a chat.

It’d be good to see if he has questions or anything to say.

Plus I just love seeing his face and hearing him talk.

Anyway,

Good vibes to anyone that struggles with Mother’s Day.

I feel your pain.

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This is a bit preemptive shouldnt we celebrate cinco de mayo first?
In all seriousness though im sure your son will remain loyal and you have nothing to worry about.

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His daddies are super supportive of me and my relationship with him.

I’m just afraid of him being sad too.

When I was looking for mother’s day gifts for my own mother I came across all these books,

One was actually titled “why a son needs his mother”.

Made me feel like ■■■■.

But he’s got two great dads.

And he’s got me.

I’m not in the typical mother role, but I am his mother.

It’s a difficult time every year.

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Sorry your feeling like ■■■■. I think having a video call with them sounds like a good idea. I know from the things you have said on here you have given him a wonderful life.

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Thank you, @Qwerty.

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I have a bad mother’s day. My 2 now grown sons wanted to stay with the daddy they consider step mom their mom. I never hear from them makes mother’s well all holidays hard.

Sorry @Charles_Foster

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I’m very sorry to hear that.

Must be very difficult.

It does make all holidays hard.

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@Charles_Foster , I think reaching out for a video chat is a great idea. I hope it goes well. How old is your son now?

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He’ll be ten soon.

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@Turtle44 , I’m so sorry. Maybe you could send them letters on holidays telling them you love them, and all about what’s going on in your life and that you miss them. Over time, they might start wanting a relationship and might reach out

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