Alright so mom had told me she was gonna do a few things then make the pumpkin pie and I said okay, mind you we tell each other what we’re gonna do through out the day so this isn’t weird at all. I said okay and went back to spend time with my husband mind you it’s his day off and I feel I don’t get much time with him especially since I’ve been so busy and I’ve told mom several times that I’ve been feeling really tired and stressed and she says that that is life and I need to get over it. Well I went to go check on my mom after a while and she gave me a look that said she’s mad I asked if she was mad and she said no and I explained she looked mad and I was worried I did something wrong she once again said no and when I turned to leave she asked what was on the menu for Christmas and I said that I had thought she had wrote it down and she said no that I was supposed to and so I wrote down what I could remember and she literally started yelling at me because I couldn’t remember and I started trying not to cry but failing she also started saying how she had made the pumpkin pie and cleaned and I was just being lazy and not helping once all of this was done she told me to stop crying and to grow up and walked off and I went to my room and gently closed my door and cried to my husband and just have been really really upset since… I feel like Christmas may have been ruined for me by my mom and I honestly don’t wanna see her tomorrow but we all live together
Reading your story,
I see why your mom is upset.
I mean, it’s down to the wire Christmas wise and she probably needed your help preparing.
Some times you just have to jump in and do stuff instead of being told/asked to do stuff.
I think it’s a little dramatic to say she ruined Christmas for you.
You should probably have your own place since you’re married,
You guys would be much happier with your own space.
Certainly her response raises some issues. Is she generally dismissive of your struggles as a sz sufferer?
I’m sorry this happened with your mum. It sounds stressful. I’m hoping things can turn around for you both and your Christmas won’t be ruined, you’ll be able to put it behind you both
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