The girl who did the dishes with me today at work, and will be doing the dishes together going forward was this very pretty 30 year old bilingual Latina woman who was real cool. Man I thought I set a bad first impression because I was so tired off two hours of sleep that I could barely speak. But I donāt think it was as bad as I thought. . My voice was very soft and I didnāt feel comfortable completely. I told her I was taking Spanish class next week and I got to practice my Spanish a little with her. She was cool about everything, she was ready for any conversation. At one point she got angry at me, and then she apologized. She lives in my city and sheās from the Bronx where my whole family is from. Her brother is my other coworker or one of them and he seems chill too. This girl is pretty tall, I kept pointing it out because her brother is shorter than her, I thought that was interesting. I said at one point " I never thought dishwashing could be so fun " and she went awwwww. As if she was the reason it was fun, I didnāt want to burst her bubble so I just went along. But does it sound like she likes me at all? I made most of the conversation I think but she was cool. Iāve shared before I really like Latina women and she showed me why. Also are you supposed to make friendships at work like that. Iāve heard mixed things. You donāt ā ā ā ā where you eat Iāve heard, Iāve also heard work is the place to meet people for someone like me. I almost told her I was Sz and then I said I would wait for another day. I just want her to know why I had job services help me out. But Iām not gonna tell her just yet or anyone for that matter even though my bosses probably know. Who knows she could have a boyfriend for all I know but oh well. Sheās definitely the coolest of the girls at my work to me. Thoughts?
Oh and my boss was going over my schedule going on forward with me and he said after Iām done with my working interview, I will go to regular schedule! Which pretty much means as long as I donāt ā ā ā ā it up , Iām hired!
Thanks man, all my bosses are really cool. The main one wasnāt in today but this other guy was tons of tattoos give me a fist bump when I came in. Heās pretty damn cool not gonna lie. Iām excited. Because this seems like a good job. I think if nothing else this girl and I can be good friends and she can help my Spanish. I thought I heard one of the other Spanish woman says itās a Novio or boyfriend to her which makes me think she has a boyfriend. She had ādenial eyesā when the woman said that to her I think. But I couldāve hallucinated the whole situation for all I know. She did say she lives with her brother though, so I know sheās not in a very serious relationship
I told her my sister was fluent in Spanish, en espagnol. She was very impressed by that. It says nothing about me, but then it also says a lot about me. It says nothing because itās my sister not me. But it does say a lot about my family values and I think she has good family values too. Evident by her relationship with her brother. So that was a plus point for me
I also guessed her sign. I thought she was a Gemini like me which is why I said May or June you were born in. She said how do you know? I was born in May. But I got the sign wrong, sheās a Taurus not a Gemini . She didnāt seem creeped out by that at all. She quickly asked what I was. Itās OK, itād be cool to have four people working the sink at once, I have a Lotta good friends are Taurus. Probably my favorite sign for friendship. Sorry I couldnāt resist ha ha
I can tell I really like her because I keep running the tape over and over in my head of everything we said to each other. That only happens when I really like someone. But like the who said, wonāt be fooled again, so I doubt this lust I have for her can last too long. Only 2 or 3 girls in my life have I ever liked for more than a week and none since I was 19. Because, wonāt be fooled again. Great song by the way. But itās hard for me to be captured under a spell anymore after my heart was broken as bad as it was. Could never happen again and I swear by it. I tend to think that could be used to my advantage. If Iām a clingy love puppy girls will get sick of me quick. I learned my lesson with the last one. Well, it wasnāt just learning, it was I could never trust like that again unless the relationship was like " real "
I wouldnāt tell her youāre sz. That can be a very scary detail. Especially for someone who does not know you that well. I know you want to be you, but she could go in reaction and quit because of it. Iāve had things like that happen to me for being too open in the workplace. Just sharing my experience.
Thanks man sounds like a good planā¦ She seems pretty open minded but youāre right you never now completely.
Maybe Iām reading into it too much but when I came in she asked for a coffee, she looked at me and then asked for vanilla with extra sugarā¦ Ha ha, Iāve heard the joke I like coffee like I like my womenā¦black. I wanted to use that line when I was 19 before I knew anyone else used it. It was before I ever drink coffee too but I almost used it on this African-American waitress in Florida she wouldāve cracked up. But I didnāt know coffee could be vanilla. But if Iām not reading into it too much, then she was attracted to me right off the bat which I like! Ha ha euphemisms can be hilarious but used to drive me crazy!!!
Now That I look at myself in the mirror, I look damn good today despite the being tired to death. My eyes look bluer than usual. And sharper too. Maybe she was into me. OK Iāll stop boring you guys to death of my ranting Iām just excited sorry
Itās really great that you have a colleague you like! I had so great colleagues in the past and it changes everything. The job is a lot more fun, it makes also you better in your work and your colleague can end up becoming a really good friend!
