I have this uncle who when we asked for help he would say he didn’t have time … And as my dad was dying he told him he’s so slow and not with it etc.
Now as his wife diagnosed with late onset sz asking everyone for help cos she’s refusing treatment. I want to help but mum says remember how they treated dad.
To be honest with them treating my dad like that I would never forgive but I’m not unwillinging to help but he said she needs to be willing to accept the help.