I want to see quick action and some retribution.
I’ve been seeing my kid sis as the victim in all this family drama as the youngest brother is amazing and kind to me and raging and horrid to my sis. My parents are always there for me and then tell my sis, “hey, you’re strong, you don’t need our help so off you go and take care of it yourself.”
I want action and results and I want to step in and really lay into this brother of mine. I want my parents to at least be there for my sis.
I’ve been really frustrated at all the nasty action that I have seen and all the inaction I’ve seen from her. I’ve taken her passiveness as weakness and her silence and ignoring as being the victim. I got upset enough that I started sleep walking. The sis said she had a plan…
She had the strangest way of showing me her plan on how to handle this.
These sort of pics are all over our front door today and the computer desk top.
She has chosen to be a lighthouse… No punching, no screaming, no anything but standing there and not being drowned. I don’t know if that is really a plan as more of a state of being.
I still want to protect and help and make the family drama stop. But I guess I have to learn that no movement doesn’t mean inactive.
I’m trying to figure out who wins… The ocean or the lighthouse? I would like her to punch him in the nose.