It’s hard to take a chance of getting hurt. What, though, would you do if you found someone? What wonderful things might happen? What if you were happy? Are you afraid you can’t be happy?
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You should watch dr. Pimple popper. That will kill your desire to watch anything for weeks and weeks. Distracting yourself helps a lot if there is an activity you don’t want to do.
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I’m glad I was never a gf of yours that’s such a horrible thing to say. If someone describes me as ugly OK thats not pleasant but for an ex someone who used to be my boyfriend even to describe me as ugly is just disgusting.
I would never call my ex ugly or comment derogarotely on his appearance, EVEN if he did that to me, which by the way he did.
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Everyone has a wank. Yes even your mum and dad.
Its just that religion conditioned the masses that it was evil and made us all feel bloody guilty about it… It isnt.
I can actually improve your mood with endorphins.
But like everything else - in moderation. If your at it 8 hours a day you might have a problem.
Get a dirty book instead - your imagination works far better than video.
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I don’t mean to sound abrasive sorry if it came across that way.
Just wanted to let you know how it would make me feel.
People can’t help the way they look so it’s quite demoralising when being called ugly, I find anyway.
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Don’t really know. Maybe a sense of hopelessness.
I’m not sure. I had a really bad breakup with my ex where she basically cheated on me. And she broke up out of the blue and we never even had a conversation about it. Instead she stole my phone and blackmailed me for money amongst other things. I had invested 2 years in that relationship. I’ve never been together with anyone since. I know most girls aren’t like that, but I guess I’m scared I have to go through something like that again.
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You shouldn’t feel guilty or bad if you are addicted, it is not your fault, quitting porn can be hard but you could start by switching to softer erotic material, genres like hentai or stripteases that are much less explicit.
Another thing you can do is to use masturbation to combat your addiction as after you masturbate you will feel much less interested in porn for several hours.
Good luck and don’t let it destroy your life. 
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I used to have a serious addiction to porn. I fought it with the help of God. I haven’t seen porn now in over a year. I do know one thing." Put crap in your mind, and you’ll get crap out" porn is crap!
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The good thing is that you see it for the disgusting thing it is. One thing to keep in mind is that the only time you broke the habit was when you had a gf. I found that breaking the habit made me hate women less and that I was OK with not finding a gf eventually. I need to truly love them before that can happen. Porn caused me to have disturbing dreams that ended when I quit it. I don’t know how you treated your gf but I think that you’ll find that if you can quit it you’ll have a better relationship with her and women in general. Good luck.
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Being called ugly can really hurt ones feelings.
I was bullied for being ugly when I lived in Onsala and it really depressed me.
I agree it’s not nice to call your x ugly and what does that say about you for being with someone you find ugly although I do love Seinfeld when his girlfriend looks hot in some angles and lighting but in other angles he thinks she is ugly.
Every one must have some Beauty to them.
Even the most horrible beings are loveable to someone.
They say with the eyes of love everyone is beautiful in their own unique colours.
I also had voices call me ugly 24/7 when I was a adult and that I’m to ugly to go outside etc
It was awful.
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What about Christian porn? That’s got to be all right.
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Nah that dont sound right - the two dont mix. Its like asking for a Muslim Pork eating Association lol
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Honestly I recommend keeping notes based on what’s going through your mind before you feel compelled to do porn.
Cause maybe you’ll find a pattern and can work with that
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Don’t give him the time of day. He’s a Troll.
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As long as its done in moderation there should be no harm.
Also I am against watching porn when you have a gf. Like I have the real thing, why bother with something else.
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I also used to watch porn when I was married.
It’s an addiction.
Thankfully today I watch it occasionally but still.
Would like to give it up completely as it’s pure garbage.
It messes my mind up for days after watching that crap!
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Sorry to hear that you’re a victim of, cray cray via female. I’ve had a relationship that was bizarre. I can’t sit here on my soap box and say it won’t happen again. I’d rather try and lose rather than not try at all.
I’m sending good vibes your way, and a hug. 
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