Loved ones that are ashamed of you?

Do you have loved ones that are ashamed of you?

My brothers are ashamed/embarrassed of me.

Hope my bf isn’t .

Apparently I wrote something embarrassing on Facebook when I was as I was and now they will not add me as s friend/contact because they are embarrassed and ashamed of me.

For not being productive enough and for being as I am…

They do not respect me and may not think highly of me but the contrary.

Itzzz “I do not know her”…

:hushed:

I have had paranoia of my family and loved ones.

My behaviour has been horrid although it was not me others were doing it in my body etc

Maybe in spirit I can be with loved ones
It is not impossible

:two_hearts::ghost:

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Let them not be “friends” for now and be at peace with it.
They may come around later on and realize you are fine just being you

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My family supports me a lot in general. But, some time ago, I had a girlfriend who was ashamed of me. At the end the thing was going well, but after a few months I got worse and she could not stand it. She took me for weird and silly. So, I decided I was not as wonderful as I thought.
You can not stop people from seeing you in a concrete way. But you can choose who to be with. I do not usually be bad most of the time, but a person who does not support you in the low moments is not worth it.
I think the family is different, you can not choose.

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Pretty much all of them just about.

Just came in from a walk outside and found my brother and mother talking about me.

They tried to play it off, but I know…

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I sometimes worry that I am putting a burden on my brother and my sister. They don’t say anything about it if I am.

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I have some supportive family. And some not so supportive. I figure I’ll just avoid the non supportive ones.

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I think my family used to be ashamed of my behaviour until I was diagnosed. Now they know it’s the diagnosis that sometimes causes me to act inapropriately, they seem more relaxed about me and less worried now.

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Yes,

And I have severed them from my life.

One of the best decisions I could make for my own happiness and sanity.

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