Because the mind is confused by the difference. Also, there seems to be an effort to equalize that difference.
I wasn’t aware of that.
i don’t think i ever was really boy crazy =p
I treated the craziness with day dreaming and idealizing men. That led to disappointments.
It would be nice. I didn’t even get the talk about the flowers and the bees. I had to figure out everything myself, except some theoretical reproduction education at school when I was about 15.