I just got accepted for counselling. Been waiting a year.
This is actually student ppl doing the counselling
But anyway heck yea.
I want to save my relationship with my bf
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And you know you have me here for biggest support! xx
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Awww thankyou!!
You’re great gal really truly
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Congratulations. I hope you get something useful from it.
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Thankyou so much yes it should be helpful that’s my desire.
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very nice! hope it helps 42435234
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I hate all the ppl that fancy my bf especially the ones that pretend that they don’t when I know they do.
Yea so that’s why I need therapy if I want to save the relationship
Also my bf says I’m prettier than his ex and my sister which is such a blatant lie.
It makes me dislike him.
Yea I know u all feel sorry for him and frowning at me. I don’t care.
Ppl have problems and I’m trying to solve mine. I’m proud of me.
I just want to feel safe and comfortable with him. I don’t want to loose him cos we work well in every other way.
I’m also scared about how others are more beautiful and he likes to look at them etc.
I’m also scared of getting ugly and he will not care about me anymore and focus on others.
I really hate all the fakes out there…
And I really hate how everyone loves my bf but not me.
I didn’t ask to be ugly and shy.
He is confident and good looking.
Basically I can’t cope with this and it’s ruining my life.
So I’m grateful that someone is finally prepared to help me on a professional level.
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hope it goes well. yea maybe its a self worth issue
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Yea I don’t know to be honest wat it is about or if it’s multifactorial or not.
Thankyou 
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np… really hope you can get to the root of it… i think the world is very judgemental of image… thats one thing… but i also think its very possible to ignore the world and not refer to outside references of your own value especially those based on appearences… they are ultimately shallow are they not? And i feel like you have made a lot of progresss in that way. Congrats…i hope the therapist will help you even more 
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As far as I’m aware most if not all men are affected by a beautiful looking, sexy woman.
I’m not sexy looking like in a magazine kind of way which is wat sells.
It makes me jelus. And feel isolated in the relationship
Congrats @Zoe! 155544
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Thankyou Wave it’s not therapy which is ideal but it’s a step in the right direction
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im not a specialist but imo thats not entirely true… i can tell you from a male perspective that physical beauty is only important insofar as pride is concerned… same with women… i think when a person is kind of allowing for pride they say oh i want a hot mate. but generally speaking, as a man, i can tell you id much rather have a woman who is a good woman than someone who is a model or something like that, beautiful by the worlds standards or whatever. I think everyone is beautiful. were all works of god. each is a masterpiece. marrying for outward appearances is like marrying for wealth… a bad idea… if you had a guy who was rich but was a bad person would you like him more than a good man but poor? Its about the same for a guy… its a temptation to be worldly but many people will not allow themselves to be tempted by such foolishness
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No I didn’t say men don’t care about personality I know they do they are human like women.
But I just don’t like that he is also attentively affected by sexy magazine women types.
I’m not saying he’s doing anything wrong regards to that. But I just don’t like it.
Worst is he makes up lies that I’m more beautiful than ppl like Rihanna for example or my model sister.
Gaslighting me.
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I have this idea that if I care for him but also don’t care on another level. Then I won’t get jelus. Kind of carefree but caring. Idk counsellors might have a better idea
Maybe one that works long term