Is putting things off an ADHD trait

My partner suspects he has it. Nothing ever gets done with him. His house has been in this state since before I met him. He doesn’t like getting rid of stuff. It might sound like he’s not even trying but he is. There’s so much stuff that when he gets rid of it more comes out of the attic. … We want to get married … but for that we have to live together first. It won’t happen until he clear out his house and put it on the market and look for something more local to where he works. I tell him often how frustrated I feel because we’ve known each other 7 years almost and still not married. We don’t plan on having kids so I guess it doesn’t matter but to me it does ! Another reason I can’t live in his house cos of the amount of stuff makes me feel like I can’t breathe. I guess it’s going to be the same in our new place until I stop that

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Can he get a cleaning lady who keeps things tidy?

That’s what we do.

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