Deep down inside I feel as though hate has been planted inside of me. If only I was to love my neighbors love my enemy’s love myself and respect others and gain strength and self control these hateful voices (evil spirits) will have no hold of my mind setting it free is it because of my martial arts background? Those violent arguments I had with my father is it the lack of respect I have shown to the opposite sex I have much to learn.
Getting into a relationship (love) will not make all your problems go away. It’s a toxic belief as does put a lot of pressure on a relationship. Few relationship can stand up to it.
That being said learning to love yourself is a big start in letting real love into your life.
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We are the charge…every charge needs a guide…I found my friend lover and soul guide…its a lot of work on both ends …is love the cure though…no…but I think love helps guide and heal…coupled with laughing as much as you can…and meds of one kind or another…or meditation and religioun or science…or both whatever your brain thinks it needs…to behave…sometimes…damit sorry bout the rant…
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love is essential…!!!
though love treats the illness to a level…!!
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Love isn’t a cure, it’s just nice to have it.
Maybe start with loving yourself. That’s part of recovery. Love yourself enough to take an active role in your recovery.
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According to Dostoyevsky hell is the suffering of being unable to love.
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He’ll is what I’m going through right now. I must find that love within me so far it’s been hate guilt lust I really need to change I need to start loving. That would be heaven.
From lust springs grief, from lust springs fear. For one who is wholly free from craving there is no grief
Radiate boundless love towards the entire world — above, below, and across — unhindered, without ill will, without enmity.
-Buddha-
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love cured me i think it can be the answer
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