I just wondering cos I really dunno.
Does it just vary on the guy or is there like a common amount.
I think about it myself but not in the context of needing it. In that sense maybe like two times per week. Or more depends on on time of menstrual cycle. Or maybe more but I’m not really sure, def not most of every day.
I just wonder how horny men are cos I’ve never been one.
I think about sex a lot and I’m a woman.
It really started spiking in my thirties.
Hyped up unmedicated teenage virgin me may of thought about sex constantly. Obsessively in cases. I think most teens do.
34 year old medicated me is a lot more relaxed about it. Maybe a few times a week I’ll get an urge.
Sex drives fluctuate form men and women, and we both peak differently
Nope. Not me. Too many other things to think about.
The meds have killed my sex drive.
I need a hot girlfriend ASAP
I don’t even feel anything from penetration. Is this common. Or is it a psychological issue. I think that’s why I’m not so bothered about actual sex with a person.
not really, we all aint like that
I love to get me some, but I don’t as often as I’d like. Granted, I’m not a man, so I’m not really answering your question.
If I thought about sex most of the day then I wouldn’t get anything done. But yes, I think about it a lot.
I’m a girl and I thought about sex quite often before meds – maybe three or four times a week. Had to get on Wellbutrin to get a bit of my spark back but it’s still lacking compared to how it was before.
I’d love to have sex but its been around 3 years now and i’m more interested in having a relationship than anything else
I’m more interested in holding someone’s hand and contact stuff like this. Understanding and humour.
The sex part is a mystery for me
I think women think about it more than men do.
Im more interested in a partnership and empathy for each other - rather than the act of intercourse. A reliable person with good morals is more important to me, rather than how wide she can open her legs. (!)
Yeah sex is great - but it does not make a relationship. It does not address the day to day paying of bills, commitments and stress that goes with living with someone. If your frustrated - you’ve always got your hands.
I had a hysterectomy so I feel nothing from sex. I still desire it from time to time but i feel those days are over now. I am only 36 so its kinda sad.
Do you mean that you actually only thought about it so many times a week, and that that’s normal for a girl, or that you thought about it for extended periods three to four times a week?
The latter. I devoted a certain part of the day to it. It was hard to wait until then, though, and sometimes I couldn’t quite hold back the thoughts as intended, so it would probably have made more sense to say I actually thought about it more than the originally stated amount, haha.
In my teens and twenties I thought about sex a lot. A lot. The flesh was more willing at that age but I still feel up to it.
Wow, that could mean a few things.
I don’t fantasize as much now but I see a pretty woman or a nice body and the mind immediately goes there. And that makes me happy.
That sounds pretty similar to how it is for me. If it had been the first one, I would have been pretty shocked.