I use FB for resources to help get resources for my kids, and to help others with kids. I belong to local free groups where someone posts a need and people see if they can help. Before my 15 and 14 year old boys hit 6’1" each I could get clothes for th hem, but no th they’re men’s 3x shirts, and well. That’s a hard size to come by. I buy what I canat Walmart, but they skipped Xl and 2xl from a large and hit 3x in like 3 months, so i can’t keep up. My daughter is 12, she is developing so she’s in Juniors clothing. Which a beautiful soul gave her a whole wardrobe of Junior’s 00 pants from Victoria’s secret, she wears them, but she doesn’t like the attention from the boys. And ■■■■ she’s a junior’s m/l top, and women’s top are too broad shouldered. She’s just not ready for attention, and she’s most developed in her class so she is embarrassed is gym when she has to change, and they don’t allow changing in the bathrooms. If you’re caught it’s a principal visit.
But i have given a lot of her 10/12 to girls who need it, and she takes very good care of her clothes. It’s nice to get the help, and I keep in contact with one of the former Coven members who is DID and her daughter who is having horrible post partum depression. We’re a mini support group the three of us. Then there’s the family I still talk to, my mom and her husband, you get sister, I stear clear of middle sister because she does nothing but have babies and do drugs. If she’s coherent I talk to her. But most the time, I can’t cause I tried to raise her better. Tried to get her off the morphine an DC weed before she had baby 6 3 weeks ago, but she did all that and drank the entire pregnancy. Hospital tested baby, he popped positive, but they leg her take him home.
I also have the guy I consider a adopted brother he introduced hubby and In high school. He’s getting married next month, so despite being bedridden and unmedicated for my sz, he still has me very involved in the planning, and his to be wife has accepted me as family, so there is some good on FB. Just gotta choose who you interact with.