My youngest brother has been in rehab the past 13 days. He’s been an angry jerk to our sis who has stood by him and stood up for him all this time. He’s refused to see her, phoned her and cussed her out, blamed her for his problems, and ignored her when she’s tried to communicate with him.
My sis babysits for a family here in the apartment building and they needed an midnight favor. Relative with a heart attack, could she watch the baby. She worked a huge shift yesterday, and now been up all night with a baby, just got in and went to bed. She’s due at work in about four hours.
So NOW my little brother calls and wants to see her. He turned the corner and feels bad and wants to see her after work. Got a little mad at me that I didn’t wake her up to talk to him. I am almost thinking of not telling her he called. I sort of don’t want her to see him. I want the shoe to be on the other foot. I’m not sure that’s the most constructive thing to do…
Logically I should just tell her he called and let her decided to see him or not. But I know she most likely will. I wonder if there is away I could talk her out of it… let him stew. Not nice I know.