I see people claiming they’re asexual, or don’t like sex or think it’s disgusting and I’m not judging. Personally at age 58 and being just average looking. I was thinking, man, maybe these asexual’s have a point. Maybe I should throw in the towel and make a decision to give up on ever having sex again.
Because what’s the big deal about it anyways? It’s hard to get (I’m single), and takes a lot of effort and only lasts 10 minutes to an hour anyways so why bother? But I just can’t quit. I’m 58 but I still get that rush, even at my age, when a woman flirts a little with me or some gorgeous woman in a supermarket knows I’m checking her out and she smiles.
Or like after work last week, a cute, just really nice woman soldier gave me the friendliest look. Hey, I’m no prize but there’s literally millions of people around the world at any given moment who are having sex. Like my title says, looks are a big help but they are not mandatory for getting sex.
Just the law of averages says everybody will get laid sometime. And I haven’t had it in years but the other day at work this woman who is kind of my boss, smiled at me and seductively said “Hiiii Nickkkk.” My first thought was that she was teasing me and being mean. But when I got outside to my car a little part of me wondered, " Hey, most guys would not find her attractive but I sure do. Maybe there’s a one in a million shot that she realized I was attracted to her and she was being nice." It happens.
But it ain’t important if she didn’t like me, at least I got that tingly rush of excitement and I’m happy for it. IDK. Just my thoughts on sex. And I just realized I should say that I’m not just looking for a one night stand. I’m not opposed to it, but there’s several woman at work my age who I am friendly with so I wouldn’t be opposed for some kind of fling that might last awhile.
Man, I get that feeling Somethimes. You should use it before you loose it.
I often complain that I’ma be single forever, but my psychiatrist, psycholog, sister, neighbor, mother they all laugh and tel me that my time will come.
I guess I give out that vibe of a good guy down to earth who will be a father one day. I guess, recently a girl told me I remind her of her father.
I really don’t understand women, some girl told me I understand her like nowone dose but that’s a far place to be until sex.
I’m in my early twenties and I sometimes want it badd but it usually passes quickly.
There’s some girls who I think like me but I dont feel like I would go to all the trouble for some sex because I would be fake. I don tlike them, I wait for someone who I cal feel something for and who turns my stick into a wood with just a look
read some of the OP, Anybody could get laid if they want. I think for some people its more complicated than others. More so in females than males in general…Some people want love after the sex. Some people want benefits, nowdays there is partnership and not real relationships in the U.S. Ive been out of the scene for a bit, but I sorta know what I want. There are people who are high maintainence, and there are people who are just personally in it for themselves. Anybody really can have sex, prostitution is the oldest job supposably. I personally am not too fond of it, but yea. I kinda know what u mean by going out and meeting and sorta getting that “rush”.
Nice post Nick. You’ve given this some thought and I’m not being sarcastic. I enjoyed reading it. Sometimes it’s good to be reminded that no matter what happens or what’s going on we all have needs whether physical or emotional no matter how long you’ve been vertical.