My house is fairly clean. There’s some recyclables here and there. Nothing bad.
My friend who was supposed to be here to watch the game with me is puttering around commenting on all the recycling. He even went in my room. That is enough to bring the claws out. I’m just trying to watch the game and ignoring him. I effing hate people messing around with my space. Maybe I’ll stop inviting him here.
Sounds like your doing your best and they cannot respect your boundaries
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He sounds like my brother.
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We are high school buddies and he’s staying here for awhile while his dad is in the hospital near me. I am glad to have him here. He just needs to not chirp at me all the time. Frustrating
is it going too far to ask him to stay out of your room?
start simple and small then maybe go from there.
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I’ll talk to him about that for sure. I already have a hard time with people coming to my house. We are super close and i want him here. This just is more stressful than i thought it would be
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i know the feeling.
everyone has something they need to have for themselves or a line not to cross when living with others… a boundary. personal space is a must.
it’s hard talking with others about it sometimes (especially people close to us) but we gotta take care of ourselves too.
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I don’t think expecting him to stay out of your personal space is too much to ask, @FatMama. You need your privacy.
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Now he just went into the bathroom and complained it smells bad. Ffs trying to not lose it.
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