I'm ducking out of a New Year's Eve party

I’m very nearly six years sober, but I am not ready for a New Year’s Eve party. If I started drinking again it would wind up as a catastrophe, maybe a slow motion catastrophe, but still a catastrophe. Some positive things are starting to take shape in my life, and I don’t want to lose them. I don’t feel good about it. I don’t want to be a wet blanket. But I’m not ready for a New Year’s Eve party.

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I think your doing the right thing. :hatched_chick::hatched_chick::hatched_chick:

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I think its better to avoid the situation instead of test yourself too

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Yes. Exactly. I still an occasional craving, and I know what will happen if I drink.

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Good man, proud of you.

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Yes, better to sit this one out. Don’t drink!

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I don’t blame you for wanting to skip it @crimby. Better safe than sorry.

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Good move @crimby

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Good decision.
Well done!

I can’t go out drinking either.

I wouldn’t be up for a party either.

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I’ve friends who smoke weed and drink lots but I still don’t need to do that myself.

I’m at a point in my life where it’s not a problem to me and it takes some work but I can appreciate the concern. Nothing worse than being around people drunk or stoned when your straight but these days for me it’s all about straight edge.

You can still have a good time but if drinking is your poison you just don’t need to do it. I know I may be a rarity but stay strong and just don’t do it. If your compromised then don’t go for sure and you’ve done the right thing.

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I wish I could buy you a cuppa Joe, @rogueone .

:hugs:

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I would love to have a coffee with you my brother on the internet! It would be an interesting conversation and I’d imagine the film talk would be off the hook…haha. Much peace my friend!

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