I’m really tired of my ex girlfriend (and I suspect other’s who work there are helping her) following me around the gym. She shows up almost the exact same time I do every single time. Then when I get there she goes to some machine close to where I am and it’s feeling very deliberate to get at me. So if I start to stink enough I think she will leave me alone.
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Maybe wait for her to go to a machine first and then go to a different area.
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I don’t understand. What does she want from you?
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That’s what I did last time besides just ignore that she was in front of me, in my line of sight. She wasn’t there today though so I think she got the message. I don’t know what she wanted other than she knew I was there and maybe wanted to try again like we always did. But I looked her up and she has a boyfriend right now.
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Maybe look into a restraining order. You’ve talked a lot about how this ex seems to be stalking you. If you feel unsafe in any way it is perfectly reasonable to get a restraining order.
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My girlfriend says I’m not normal. She hurts me.
Being stinky in the gym is a double-edged sword.
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This thread reminds me of something I would do every once in a while when I was in certain parts of OC where there were gangs and a lot of dope dealing. I would mutter to myself and act like I was just completely out of it so no one would ask me what I was doing there in that area.
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Maybe tell the staff. And I agree with @valiumprincess if she’s stalking you maybe a restraining order is a good thing.
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Is this who you think is stalking you on the forum? She must be really dedicated to harrassing you!
I don’t remember who specifically I thought was stalking me. I don’t think it was her though.
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