Idk what to do about this

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So you say things, and then he says that you need a therapist?

And you think that some issues you have, has no point about being talked about because you don’t believe they can be helped?

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that is a technique that I have, if you feel attacked by intrusive thoughts and way too stressed,
repeat out loud I have peace of mind, repeat it several times and things will get better.

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Yeah basically

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So do you feel this way about the doctor as well if you were to try to change his mind?

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I’m a little unsure of what you mean

I’ve told him that the in home services are too much and he’ll say it’s not too much…also I’ve said that I don’t think they’d help but he seems to think the services are helpful and that I’d benefit.

We’ve just been going back and forth about it like every session

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So you’re just fudging around trying to come to an agreement.

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Yeah, and idk what to say to him about it anymore.

It also makes me worry that I’m not seeing that I’m doing badly or something which freaks me out.

Idk. I kind of feel like I shouldn’t do it until I’m more confident about it.

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It sounds like you are being worn down by the arguing.

Do what exactly?

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Yeah, I feel that way.

And I meant I shouldn’t do therapy until I’m more confident about it

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I feel the same way you do.

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do what you feel is right in your heart x

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I agree. I think she knows what she’s doing.

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Definitely @Resilient1 :slightly_smiling_face:

@anon1571434 yeap I do! Thanks for all the reply’s

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Mannn I feel you on this, I had a letter saying that I was on the waiting list for occupational therapy now and I have no idea what it’s gonna entail :frowning: slightly anxious! Good luck with yours!

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Thanks, and they just put you on the list without telling you?? I’d be kinda anxious too about it

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Yeah essentially! :frowning: it could be anything but I have a 4 month old so it’s gonna be difficult too!

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Would they come to you? Like an in home kind of thing?

Yeah I have no idea of what it would be like exactly. I’d imagine things like that being difficult with a four month old!

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Well, in that case, he may be right about his suggestions. Drinking might foul up your independence. Drinking and drugging got me kicked out of a few living situations. It’s a waste of time and a money drain. It’s not impossible to quit drugs and alcohol.

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I’ve been in two vocational programs. They had informal classes on writing resume’s, honing interview skills, and many other aspects of getting and keeping jobs. I don’t know if the therapy you mention is one-on-one or groups but mine consisted of 10-15 other people and though I was not overly fond of attending, they both eventually got me jobs so I guess they were successful.

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I find waiting for the perfect moment in life to do things is often fruitless.

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