When I met my partner but he’s very annoyingly taking things so slow that I’m losing my patience… I’ve talked to him but he keeps going on about how being slow and steady wins the race.
do you mean you are playing the lottery?
COngrats on your partner but I was really hoping that you had won a 30 million dollar jackpot or something.
No I won the lottery (lottery meaning my partner).
I try my luck on powerball sometimes.
It’s a figure of speech
When he says slow - no dates? Just wait and see kind of slow? Or Plan things far out with hard dates.
He wants to move in before we talk of getting engaged or even married. He’s being sensible obviously but it really annoys me how sensible he is. I just have to learn some patience
Right - like get an apartment together. What’s the hold up on that?
He’s got his own place but his mortgage has to be up before he can move closer to his and our work. So next year. I will try to be patient. I’ve no choice.
I see. You want to be with him. Makes you impatient.
Also you want to leave home and be on your own. Makes you impatient.
I’m making assumptions. From your past posts.
But yeah - seems like its the rational thing to do.
I’m generally an impatient person. I feel bad for him.
It’s okay - Sounds like he loves you just the way you are.
I just want to be with him. It’s been 5 years. It’ll happen though.
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