My colleague persistently asking if my partner has proposed because I don’t want to leave it to late as I’m getting old (I’m 34)…hmmm … I kinda told her that we don’t plan on having kids or I would want to rush into it if I did. … She’s 35. I didn’t say that out of spite but if she wanna constantly judge me because I’m not married yet and I’m getting old mAybe she should look at herself that’s she’s not had kids yet. I don’t agree with that per se. … But if she puts so much importance to culture or society then that’s exactly the way a lot of people think.
Maybe I handled that wrong but I was getting angry
I’ve been with my partner for going on 12 years now. We aren’t married and are in no rush to get married. We just don’t place that much importance in it. I also don’t have any children, but i don’t want to have any either. Don’t worry about what other people have to say about you, so long as you’re happy. It is your life, live it in a way that makes you happy. That’s what i try to do.