I had an episode without being in a dangerous situation. I’ve not dated in 6 months. And then i the first guy finds my insta id. I cannot let go of the convo. I feel distressed but I look happy and seem happy when typing. I’m not. He was the first but I had a ■■■■ time I’m not sure he gets it.
Guys he creeped me out I blocked but I’m paranoid now.
I think I’m having psychosis. As now I think his account was hacked by my ex the creep who tracked me. I know it’s irrational but it feels like the only explanation. He didn’t used to be this creepy.
Sometimes guys hide how creepy they are at first. As long as you blocked him, you should be okay. Sorry he was bothering you.
Some girls automatically think a guy is a creep at first for trying to talk to them
That’s the thing the convos used to be pleasant and it felt pleasant … and I thought he was mature.
Yeah I never thought he waS a creep that’s why I went as far as I did all them months back.
Try not to obsess over it now. You solved the problem. You blocked him. If he tries to contact you another way, you can block him there, too. You’re handling this responsibly.
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Hopefully the delusional thinking goes. It’s 3 am.
Do y’all actually see each other in person
Saw him before … zero contact in person. But freaking out this wasn’t him.
Ask to meet in a public place or a park
No. Never. As he made it clear he didn’t want relationships. Now he wants to try. He wants to start as friends.
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Well that doesn’t sound creepy at all. Give him a chance
I am not ready for this plus I’m not gonna go into a relationship with someone whose not sure.
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Me saying no should be accepted as an answer. Trying to push me to give reasons, it was out of order. If I don’t want to I don’t want to.
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For sure. Never do anyrhing just because your pressured to
It’s okay, ish. You blocked him, and you don’t have to have any future contact with him. You’re going to be alright. You don’t have to date anybody if you don’t think it’s the right decision for you.
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I know. But I’m fearful as he’s local or he might find my address. He already wanted to know if and where I was working. I’ve been stupid in the past to tell him but no job at the moment.
If he bothers you any more, you can always just call the police and report him for harassment. Save your conversations as evidence if you’re worried.
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