I want a partner but got no job and I stay at home all day

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Unfortunately due to paranoia and negative symptoms I got no job and am very recluse. However I long for company and a partner. Though every woman wants someone with a job, goes outside and not some guy who spends all his time indoors doing nothing.

I actually became suicidal because I thought too much of this in 2023. Now am more happier and healthier and I sincerely wants a wife/partner again. I am not trying to brag but I am pretty good looking based on what others have told me over the years. Maybe I can utilise this but how? Anyone jobless/recluse and got a wife?

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I’d like the same, but somethings are just too improbable. I hope it works for you though

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I know of several cases where a jobless man got a girlfriend. But a girlfriend isn’t going to come knocking on your door, you have to be out somewhere to meet her. Looks will get you in the door but you better have some kind of a good personality to be with a girl on a day to day basis.

Years ago I got lucky and took some women out and had a girlfriend. I met them in mental health programs like vocational programs or therapy groups or day programs or mental health housing. I didn’t join those things to meet girls, I was in them for other reasons but the women were there and it worked out. And I had friends who didn’t have jobs but still hooked up with women.

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If you can get a part time job and your good looking and a nice person your set man …

Before sz i could always get a girlfriend and even after sz I still had “friends” but without the job at 36 it’s hard.

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When I met my husband he was already permanently disabled and was barely able to walk.

I married him.

I’m female.

We spend very little time going places and have basically no money.

But we love each other and enjoy each other’s company

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I have a friend who’s unemployed and over 400ibs and he hooks up on dating sites with women all the time., Shags them then on to the next with no commitments, People really like sex

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Bro is big dawg. Literally.

:gorilla:

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@Brim im pretty much the same as you bro, but i do have a girlfriend. Been together 5 years. We are both recluses haha. Both have mental health issues. But it works really well. She’s great.
Hope you find someone!

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You should put your face out there on mental health groups like on Facebook

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Just be goodlooking they say

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I am on disability and had no problem finding a mate…online dating dude…I used plenty of fish because it’s free…good luck.

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I also have this problem. Im very lonely and depressed about having no friends and no chnace at a relationship. I dont want kids but i want a boyfriend. I had a job for two years and had to quit because i got sick again and am going to see if i can get a bipolar diagnosis because it fits better. Ill see if i can make friends first

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Good news: my uncle knows a lot of women and introduced me to a woman. I FaceTimed her and she instantly fell in love with me. She keeps phoning me and is even getting jealous that am speaking to other women. This is just by seeing me once through facetime.

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It’s the old dilemma with a twist. I wouldn’t want to be a member of any club that would have me as a member.

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Best of all she’s an 18 year old beauty. I am 23 so some age gap but still fine I think. I will be visiting her with my uncle in a few weeks.

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