I’ve given up on marriage

it’s just not gonna happen for me … he takes forever to do anything. It really bothers me. But I also got to consider his perspective it doesn’t make sense to get married if we are not living together. There is no way I’m moving there though. I would be isolated from everyone and everything and become reliant on him. I think he has a serious hoarding problem as well which could be adhd … if he’s willing to accept me with my conditions why can’t I do the same

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Marriage is the certificate and love is the marriage I think. A spiritual union is up to God maybe

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Lucky guy to have a girlfriend :heart_eyes:

I wish I did lol

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If I find that special someone I can spend my entire life with, but also maybe okay to be single. Marriage is a big commitment.

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don’t marry him if you have doubts…

You’re right. I don’t have doubts I know he loves me. I just don’t feel he’s gonna get to the stage of marrying me anytime soon.