I think it is OK to dislike some people/a person as long as you still wish them well

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I understand the truth hurts concept but some people say things in absoluteley ridiculous ways

More hurt than necessary

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These people generally pay for it with time outs

Work for the mods but makes it a more pleasant part of the internet

Elsewhere itā€™s a lot worse

Sometimes I scroll through FB comments and people on there are plain nasty to each other

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I have to admit I do do that myself too sometimes but am working on reducing thatā€¦ At least Iā€™m trying

That is regarding people who say things in more hurtful ways than necessary in violent ways.

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The world discriminates against the sensitive soul. Thatā€™s probably the first lesson my parents wanted to teach me.

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I think it just takes practice to have less violent communication. Like making a new habit.

Iā€™m not sureā€¦

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Itā€™s a style of communication. Some people are more direct. Others indirect. There are also differences amongst cultures.

Some people like pushing others their buttons too.

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I donā€™t like the violent style of communication.

People sometimes say things in ways that can be worded differently with the same message no?

Iā€™m just so fed up of violence in any shape or form.

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I mean too inflammatory type of communication not violent.

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Sometimes the message ā€˜sticksā€™ better if it hurts.

Politicians use it all the time.

But I guess you dislike politiciansā€¦

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I think it is absolutely great that some people can be so direct. I honestly do.

But certain use of words I feel is very hurtful.

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I donā€™t know any politicians.

But about the message sticking betterā€¦

You make a good point

I donā€™t know whatā€™s best.

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I guess Iā€™m afraid to be so direct that it is very inflammatory because I fear no one will like me.

It doesnā€™t mean Iā€™m a liar I donā€™t think if I try and take a less direct approach does it? Orā€¦

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It doesnā€™t make you a liar.

You just dislike hurting peoples feelings.

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I just dislike being disliked by everyone to the extent they donā€™t want to see or talk to me.

If I talk direct

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I love this quote.

Now matter what you say or do 1/3 of people will like you. 1/3 will dislike you and 1/3 wonā€™t care.

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Lol

In my case most people wonā€™t like me, I predict.

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But I donā€™t know

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I hate it when people are hated for things they have no control over.

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  • Mae doesnā€™t like me
  • Mae likes me
  • I donā€™t like Mae
  • I like Mae

0 voters

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There are people I dislike that I wish would improve because it would be better for everyone. I admit that there are a select few I wouldnā€™t mind see dying slowly, screaming in pain. In my defence they have it coming.

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