I made friends at my community mental health place. I would be severely struggling without them. You need to have plenty of support, even if it’s just your family.
I mean, you shouldn’t want to be alone. We’re social creatures by nature. Ever see the movie “into the wild”? This guy goes out into the alaskan wilderness to be alone and dies. As he’s dying he scribbles out “happiness only real when shared”. I think there is some truth to that.
I love being social but I can groove by myself quite easily. I think it’s a balance for me. I need my quiet side to enjoy my social side. Confusing. You bet you but that is how I roll. I like other people. I need to connect with them and 20 years later I talked to my ex wife on the phone today. I just find it impossible to write off people who I have been close with…
So. I woulnd’t give up on friendship. It really does make life more interesting.
I have no problem being alone. I have spent extended periods of time by myself with only contact being phone w/family. It just doesn’t bother me. I do tend to talk to myself a lot, but that’s another issue. I enjoy being around other people, I just don’t require it.