I should have listened to y'all

So back in the day I was upset because David didn’t seem to want kids and a lot of y’all suggested I talk to him about it…

We finally ended up talking about it… It turns out he wants a kiddo… Only one… The thing is he don’t want to be living with my narcissistic and controlling mother when we have one! We also don’t believe in a lot of stuff she does (she’s racist, a bigot, and don’t like the LBGTQ+ community while we are fine with them!) He also said that thinking of kids living in foster care or in any kind of bad situation makes him feel really sad and bad for them and I understand that but it makes him not wanna talk about adopting any kid at all! With me going off my bipolar meds and going all natural for that we decided that after all of his debt is paid and we have an apartment we will open the discussion of the possible of having a child together! Until then I’m gonna concentrate on getting better and we are both gonna concentrate on paying the debt so our dreams can come true! I should have listened to y’all!

4 Likes

That’s so great. Communication makes for a good relationship. I been struggling with this in mine. And started talking again and its helped us be closer.

Yay for you - setting up goals.

1 Like

@Kxev you’re definitely right! I am being more open again… I seem to clam up at times and it kinda sucks

2 Likes

Thats really cool news, I’m happy for you :blush:

1 Like

This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.