I think you need to be ready to keep your pets their whole lives. Being sent elsewhere to live after being part of a family is really hard on them. They’re sad, confused and they grieve. Just be really sure first before you adopt a pet
Don’t adopt a pet unless you’re able to make a lifetime commitment - that’s what they deserve. Also, don’t adopt one if you can’t afford its basic needs.
Cats are a lot easier with SZ in my opinion. With dogs you have to walk them, take them outside, etc. If you’re agoraphobic or have avolition at all it’s a bad idea. I had to rehome my dog when I got sick but I had pretty severe agoraphobia back then.
They are lots of work. I bought a dog and now rely on my dad to do most of the work. I dont walk her or feed her dinner. The most i do is get up with her at night and in the morning. But she still wakes my dad up.
She also triggered paranoia when id be home alone with her. It still does from time to time. Its different when you feel responsibility for something. It changes how you think.
Allllso. I cant handle the barking. It stresses me out. Bella is a real talker. The most talkative dog we have ever had. Its cute but its loud and bothers me as most loud noises do. If i could go back i probably would not have got her and opted for a bulldog. Shes a lab and needs constant exercise. Luckily my dad is really caring and plays with her.
It’s just I don’t want a cat if I can’t have a dog. I think a cat is boring if she can’t fight with a dog. But yea I definitely see where you are coming from. Perhaps I’ll change my mind in the future about no pet and just get a cat but I don’t see that happening so I have to stick with my beanie babies this is just so so so so so sad. I really need pets. For instance how there’s ‘disability support animals’ I think they are called. Idk maybe that’s okay. Will need to look into that.
Yea good point. What can I really look after? Certainly not a son or daughter. But maybe if I feel differently in the future perhaps pets is okay if I can look after myself more ‘better’.
It is great that you are being thoughtful about that. Wishing u well.