I really love him but I'm not sure it's going to work

And I say this because I’m still struggling with intimacy 3 years after the psychotic episode. The guilt of having this episode is eating at me. He says he doesn’t care but I think deep down it matters to him. I think I’m asexual I just don’t care for it.

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If he doesn’t mind, then what’s the issue? pressure from yourself? that can be managed/compensated surely?

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He did say he doesn’t care but he’s also in hopes that it will happen when I’m ready. I don’t think I’ll be ready.

I see. that is an issue, he hopes and you not so sure. makes sense now. you don’t wanna leave him tho right? could it be psychological, could therapy help?

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I love him and I have feelings for him so I don’t know what the best thing to do is. maybe im being selfish… I could ask for couples counseling though good point

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Exploring all the angles of this issue in therapy is a good idea. It can help you gain clarity and make a wise decision

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