It’s so nice to be here.
You’re such a great bunch.
Thankyou to the team and creator of this forum.
It makes a positive difference to my life.
In more way than one
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Me too. I would socialize way less if it weren’t for the forum.
I also learn through other people’s experiences.
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The forum, when it is in full swing, is a delight to behold.
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I love this forum too - thats why im always gutted when im being a git and get suspended lol 
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I used to feel the same way.
I felt really connected to the forum and like I could get help from people who have been there, have comradery and share my own experiences.
Now,
It’s very different.
I still love interacting with members but 100% feel I can no longer bring serious or sensitive issues to the table.
The times I have against my better judgement, I regretted it.
I come to the forum first thing every morning because it’s become part of my OCD ritual.
If I could break myself from that ritual,
I may try to permanently depart.
It’s been suggested.
A few times.
I don’t feel like the forum made a full recovery after it went down for a long time a few months ago.
Things do change though.
And hopefully they change for the better next phase.
Or I can get a better grip on my OCD.
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I think the forum is bound to change over time. Only we as participants can help to shape what it becomes. Don’t give up on it Charles. You make this place much more beautiful it would be a shame to see you go.
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I appreciate that.
It just super hurts and I wish it weren’t the case.
You’re right too though,
Things do change.
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Why do you feel that
I really like you as a part of the forum too. Would be sad to see you go.
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It’s an personal situation with a few personalities here.
I feel that when I do post anything serious or wanting help,
I receive intentionally patronizing answers from these exact people.
So it’s best to just comment on other people’s threads and pretend I’m fine until things change or I find a different means of support.
I realize not all answers in a thread are what you want to hear.
I very much speak how I feel,
But rarely is it malicious.
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I hope ppl see your answer and think twice before replying to a thread of yours if you still do. I try not to be patronising. Not sure if I come across that way. Hopefully not.
At least zombiemombie retired. She hated my guts
I very much doubt she hated you.
But I agree it’s good she retired.
She’s doing much better now,
Much happier.
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That’s good. Yeah she was in a perpetual bad mood
Honestly FreeLunch. You’re quite likeable, I don’t know why anyone would hate you
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Ha!
Yeah, she took a more aggressive approach for sure.
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Thanks. I’m feeling pretty down right now. Your kind words are welcome
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I’ve been following your posts and realize you’re feeling down right now.
I’m also feeling very low right now.
Thing is,
We’re both pretty ■■■■■■■ awesome.
You are a good looking man,
You have personality and humor,
You don’t jump to the worst conclusion and ask questions.
Don’t let outside circumstances make you question yourself.
You’re better than that.
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Thank you so much for the boost! 
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