I need a date

[paranoid]

are you living in California?

[everhopeful]

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[Ninjastar]

I recommend okcupid. I met my fiancé on there. But first make sure you are emotionally stable and happy with your own life, or else you won’t be a very good date. Some people think romance is the way to happiness, but that puts undue pressure on the person you’re dating. Nobody can be someone else’s reason to live.

[dudius]

18th of June 1982

[anon63589023]

I’m a gemini too.

[dudius]

I’m an Aquarius and a wee bit older than that. I was just giving him a date.

[anon31257746]

Your local grocery store should have dates for sale in the produce isle

[paranoid]

oops sorry