I found the doctor that was with me during the traumatic birth I had. On Facebook. A midwife told me her name months ago and I looked her up.
I can’t shake what happened or get it out of my head. I know I’m taking them to the cleaners but I just want to talk to her and see where it all went wrong.
So I’ve sent a message. Yeah pretty stupid probably. I hope she responds. My memory is so fragmented of what happened I just want to piece it together.
I wouldn’t do anything unless it’s through solicitors. You’ll only jeopardise your settlement.
Your right. I know it. It’s just on my mind a lot and I need to talk through it.
Do it through solicitors.
Should I block her on Facebook then so she can’t reply ?
Yes. Do not contact her again
Sooooo risky and not a good idea
Only talk to your lawyer
Yes, only speak to your lawyer
Don’t contact her again
Delete the message if you can and only talk to the lawyer.
She could possibly come out and say you’re harassing her.
Please, just don’t continue talking to this woman or anyone involved in that horrible situation.
You should also tell your lawyers/solicitors you reached out to her so they will create a damage plan.
If you can’t delete the message, it might be a good idea to save a copy for your records before blocking her. That way, you can give it to your lawyers and they can back you up in case, like @Schztuna says, she tries to get your case thrown out because of harassment claims.
It’s very serious. Talk to your lawyer asap
I’ve unsent the message kept a copy and blocked her. Thanks.
I feel so stupid. All I want to do is piece together what happened.
The truth will come out soon enough. Your lawyers are handling it all. Until then, hug your babies close and they will help lessen the grief and trauma. The good thing is he won’t remember what happened, only you will. So he gets to fill his head with happy memories and love from his family,
Thankyou @sweetpotatopie
Good! I’m relieved.
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