I’m a bit bummed out

[CoCo]

Today, I wore my natural curly hair instead of straightening it. I really like it that way. But my best friend told me she doesn’t like it that way. I know I should just do what I want, but I can’t help it. I’m hurt because it’s the real me

[Wave]

You should do what makes you happy.
Try not to let others opinions get in your way.

[everhopeful]

I’m sure your hair looks great either straight or curly. If you prefer to wear it curly then go for it.

Your friend just expressed a preference. It doesn’t mean she’s “right”.

[CoCo]

Thx @Wave @everhopeful. I’m just being sensitive

[anon55031185]

Who stares at you everyday? She don’t. Tell her to mind her bloody beeswax.

[CoCo]

Lol! That came across funny to me @anon55031185

[anon55031185]

And if she complains, put the paper bag over HER head.

[CoCo]

Haha! Thx @anon55031185

[agent101g]

Oh it’s more important what you think than what your friend thinks. It’s your hair not hers!

[jukebox]

you should embrace what makes you feel good…and that means wearing your hair the way you want.

[PinCushion]

Why is it that we can’t accept each other as is? I suggest that your friend is struggling with some self -acceptance problem herself.

[yoda123]

that sucks
maybe she isn’t the friend you deserve
keeping what you like will keep you happy
i hope you can work it out and all will be well

[CoCo]

Thanks @agent101g

[CoCo]

Thanks @jukebox

[CoCo]

Yes, that’s actually true @PinCushion .

[CoCo]

Thanks @yoda123