In my last mania I destroyed my finances seriously. Now.i have 3 choices as to what I can do to solve it.
Go bankrupt. Will cost $500. Destroyed credit for 7 years.
Consolidate. Will still owe about $300 a month for the next 5 years assuming the consolidation company can work something out. Destroyed credit for 5 years.
Do nothing. Credit companies can’t touch disability money. I would need to change my.phone number. Destroyed credit forever.
doing nothing won’t destroy your credit forever. Eventually those unpaid debts fall off your credit report. I also ruined my credit via mania and I’m still waiting for those things to fall off my report. Some of them come off in 3 years, some 4 years and some come off in 7 years. The debt management company I worked with told me it’s better to let them come off than to file bankruptcy because the bancruptcy takes 7 years. I’ve managed to reestablish credit and have already started building my score back up. I have about $5000 in credit card debt that will fall off my reports in another year and I’ve managed to get my score up to 630. That’s not too bad since it was under 500.
No medical
I bought tons for the kids and I
I bought huge amounts of food
I got hooked on an online game
I bought a car.
I got the kids.glasses
I got the kids dental care
My ex boyfriend scammed me out of thousands of dollars.
And it goes on and.on
Is the car in danger of repossession? Other than that, if it’s just small credit cards or other unsecured debt, they most likely won’t take you to court. From what I understand if you have larger credit cards they might take you to court, where you could be ordered to pay according to the judges orders. Then that’s a different ball game. But all my stuff was smaller amounts, just lots of them. So they just sent it all to collections. No one took me to court. I feel bad but I couldn’t pay after I became disabled and I still don’t have any extra income really. I wish I could pay it off but I don’t see it happening.
I know, I do too. I just got another credit card during this last manic. It was $1000. I already spent $800 before I realized what I had done. I’ve sent back about $250 of the stuff. The other stuff is stuff we actually needed so I’ll just go ahead and make the payments but crap I didn’t want another monthly payment. I’m trying to get my monthly payments down right now.
I had a ton of debt. Everything in connection. Never paid it. Mostly medical and little stuff. My credit score was around 500 less than 10 years ago. Now it’s over 750. I only have one credit card and I pay it off every month. It really helps get my credit score up. It went up almost 100 points in one year just doing that.
Having permanently destroyed credit can have disastrous consequences. 1 or 2. Maybe 1 considering paying 3x as much for 2 years less of destroyed credit seems not a good deal to me.
I had a bill for going to the emergency room for an emergency order of detention. It was only $70.00, but I was thinking, “You took me to the emergency room against my will. Hell no I didn’t want to be there. Hell no I’m not going to let you charge me for taking me there.” I eventually paid the bill, but I made them wait a long time.
when I first got sick I didn’t pay on any of my debts…including my car payment…after I finally stabilized some seven months later…all I got was some harassing phone calls from the credit companies and then it was done…
bankruptcy should only be done if you have like half a million in debt…