I just saw it in a tv show and ive heard it said to me before. It always sounds like “im giving up on u.” Or really it sounds like im a lost cause. People constantly say i need help but really they’ve just said “ur pathetic”. Just the way people say it too its always in that deragotory tone.
I feel the same way. I think that often times we know when we need help. People saying I need help does nothing but make me feel inferior. People are better off saying that they are going to help me get help. Pointing it out seems to do nothing. Doing something, well does something