They weren’t there for me when I was unemployed at 16 - 17 then got a job and was out with my mates all the time completely forgot about family until I got ill and had them in my head then hated them even more then I got desperate and lonely and had no job no mates so I liked em but now I despise every single one of them there’s loads of reasons why hopefully I can get a council house Monday and never see them again, needed to vent
They seem to be there when you need them. It reminds me of “I need you more than want you”.
My saying is : the more help you need, the less you get and the less help you need, the more you get.
it is tough, take care
I kind of hate my family too, none of them seem to care about my schizophrenia.
i can relate. who needs enemies when you have family?
my own family are dog eat dog. it’s not important if someone is a relative. they will screw you over if they can.