I feel like a loser

I’d give you three likes for that!

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@Solidus ,you can PM me if you want.I have 45 yrs and experience…

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I’m so glad you have a sweetheart for a husband. I wasn’t so lucky. My ex was a rapist and a wife beater. He deserved what he got.

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Wow, thank you everyone for the overwhelming amount of responses. I guess I just need to get comfortable in my own skin. I think I’ll continue taking each day as it comes and hopefully the right girl will enter into my life, God willing. Thanks for the responses @anon54525863 @Aziz @Cloudd3ad @ATARI @zwolfgang @bluebutterfly @CoCo

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Patience.

Inner Strength.

Courage.

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Patience. Patience. Patience.

For it is Some Kind of Thing Called Virtue… . … :100:

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Just to add that I had a gf before my SZ. She left me because of my SZ symptoms.
I just realized after that its possible to be happy without a partner and many normal ppl are happy without one.

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My first husband was a jerk. I’m glad I got a good one now. I’m sorry you went through that @SkinnyMe

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I thought this thread was about ED and @Solidus problem?

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I can’t “get” girls either. But at 59 it’s not as important to me as when I was younger. I still feel attracted to certain women which makes me happy and I can talk to most women it seems, and I have eyes so I sure put them to good use when a pretty woman comes into my field of vision. But sex? It’s not a driving force in my life and to be honest, it’s a relief. Sex feels good but there’s plenty of other things that feel good too. And I’ll concentrate on those.

Women take a lot of commitment, energy and time and I don’t know at this point in time if I want to invest all that energy into a serious relationship. The women at work seem friendly enough and I could see having a platonic relationship with several of them.

Hell, girls we’re never knocking down my door to get to me either so I feel for you.
The laws of the universe seems to state that when you need women the most you can’t get any but once you just kinda give up and you don’t care any more they seem to come into your life. I still got lucky sometimes even after I got sober (which always surprised me) but now I’m in a space; If it happens, it happens, if it don’t, it don’t.

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Human’s ability to live without sex is what diffrentiates us from animals. Sex is unimporant for humans. But I still don’t understant how high ranked priests can live without p0rn and masturbating while marrying couples and be the most social individuals in society.

I don’t get their celibate/clean life concept. They show us that sex is not social. The longest I have gone without masturbating or watching porn is 2 months. I guess I will never be able to become a priest lol I know that now for sure lol :joy:

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And no tails………………

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Even the Beatles must have felt that way at one time.

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