I don't want to be seen

Call it shy but I’m just convinced I’ll get called ugly and I can’t deal with it.

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I hate being focused on or being the center of attention. Especially in public.

I’ve found that most people don’t pay much attention to how you look in public or even really care. If someone says something mean, then they’re incredibly rude. Not your problem.

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I don’t really care anymore how I look

But I sure stink

I wouldn’t want someone to catch a whiff of me

Nothing a shower and fresh clothes can’t solve

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I think you’re most likely not ugly. It’s probably low self esteem

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I’m a chameleon. If I’m relaxing with a friend, I might look ok. Otherwise, my family was always critical and fearful that I wouldn’t be accepted.

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I’m sorry your family made you feel that way. My family did the same to me so I know how it feels.

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@PinCushion you’re not ugly, I’ve seen pictures of you.

My mum has been a bit critical over my life time but if i tell her im ugly she says im not so im grateful for that at least

I have one good picture of me - probably the one you’re referring to. Me with long hair sitting in a recliner. A very special friend took the picture and this is the only reason it turned out better than life.

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I still think you’re a nice looking woman…don’t beat yourself up !!

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I feel the same. I don’t want to be seen either

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