I don't know why I put up with it

It didn’t bother me too much last night.

But now what my husband said is really getting to me.

I was laying in bed, trying to go to sleep and he came in asking me why I was being grumpy all day?

(I don’t even think I was that grumpy yesterday)

Anyways, he continued by saying “I don’t want to work all day to come home to you being cranky”

All I said was “yeah”, because I was trying to go to sleep/half asleep and wasn’t in the mood to argue…

He THEN says, “you’re too chubby to be sh*tty”

Again, I just responded “yeah” and fell asleep…

Now that I’m remembering it… It’s really bothering me.

PLUS, now my 3 year old daughter (just yesterday and today) has started saying “what the f*ck”…

I have said MULTIPLE times to my husband and step son to watch their mouths and they don’t…

These 2 events might be the straw that’s broken the camels back…

I might just be leaving my husband..

4 Likes

I could see the other things…maybe. My wife was particularly ‘grumpy’ yesterday, and its not fun to live with…but the comment above seems inexcusable and shallow to me.

sometimes people curse and personalities conflict, but insulting your physical appearance and basically saying you arent good enough to complain seems like an insult I would have a difficult time letting go of , as well.

So…yes, I agree, for what my opinion is worth.

Whether or not you should leave him, i will not say. Thats up to you. But it definitely appears innappropriate and offensive in my book.

PS. I dont want to say that whatever you were or were not ‘grumpy’ about is comparable to my situation either. Not saying you were or were not, or if it was justified or not. I wasnt there. dont know that part. But that comment seems unjustified for sure.

5 Likes

Yeah @Bowens

I’m so upset right now.

Especially about my 3 year old dropping the F bomb.

4 Likes

That was a barbed and nasty thing for him to say

3 Likes

Yeah,

He makes rude comments quite often…

@el_Jimbobbio

1 Like

It’s easier said than done leaving someone….. but I’ve done it and much happier as a result.

He needs to seriously apologise.

I know what you mean about the straw that broke the camels back..:.it didn’t take much for me to leave my ex it was a culmination of everything over the years and the last thing wasn’t anything major but it was enough for me to leave. X

4 Likes

I’m sorry @Wonderer
That would seriously hurt my feelings too.

2 Likes

My feelings would be hurt too. I’m so sorry he said that :frowning:

3 Likes

This topic was automatically closed 14 days after the last reply. New replies are no longer allowed.