I could see the other things…maybe. My wife was particularly ‘grumpy’ yesterday, and its not fun to live with…but the comment above seems inexcusable and shallow to me.
sometimes people curse and personalities conflict, but insulting your physical appearance and basically saying you arent good enough to complain seems like an insult I would have a difficult time letting go of , as well.
So…yes, I agree, for what my opinion is worth.
Whether or not you should leave him, i will not say. Thats up to you. But it definitely appears innappropriate and offensive in my book.
PS. I dont want to say that whatever you were or were not ‘grumpy’ about is comparable to my situation either. Not saying you were or were not, or if it was justified or not. I wasnt there. dont know that part. But that comment seems unjustified for sure.
It’s easier said than done leaving someone….. but I’ve done it and much happier as a result.
He needs to seriously apologise.
I know what you mean about the straw that broke the camels back..:.it didn’t take much for me to leave my ex it was a culmination of everything over the years and the last thing wasn’t anything major but it was enough for me to leave. X