My wife scheduled with a couple that has kids to meet up today. They talked yesterday but didn’t set a time which annoyed me cause I like to know my schedule. The expectation was that they would come over and we would chat in the living room with the kids around.
Well at 3pm when they finally called they changed their mind and wanted to go to a park instead. I was not prepared mentally to leave the house and kind of freaked out. So I told my wife to go with them and I would stay at home… which is what happened.
It just seems like the change in plans just short circuited my brain and caused me to get all stressed out almost to the state of panic attack.
In hindsight the park was a nice idea and it seems they had a fun time… kinda wish I went
Yes. My brother will text me asking me if I want to go over to his house to watch a movie at 2 hours notice because his wife is out. Like I’m dial-a-pizza or something.
The last time I said no and haven’t had an invite since. Which actually suits me.
I don’t like impromptu invites either. Except by my gf. I’ll do anything at a moments notice for her. But nobody else. And sometimes, rarely, I’ll even reject her. Luckily, very, very rarely does anybody ever call me.
I completely relate to not wanting to go out in public. I can handle changes in plan though with a warning. I do find it easier to leave the house if I’m with someone though
I can relate.