I’ve taken his no off my phone to prevent myself from contacting him but I honestly think I’m going crazy.
I think I’ve struggled too often with issues on which I go back and forth.
Jayster
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It’s because he keeps messaging me. I’ve had to tell my Parents a bro exactly my intentions of having sex with him so I can guard myself
Maybe if your that way inclined, it might be a good idea to switch off the phone or at least change your SIM card until he gets the message and leaves you be. How serious is it between you two?
I met him Sunday
That sounds a bit hot and heavy, maybe you should mull it over for a bit and see if your feelings lessen you don’t want to make a rash decision. Trust me there’s no taking it back after. So how did it get so serious so fast?
He told me he didn’t want a relationship but a fling
He’s basically just told you outright that he is going to use you and then discard you when it stops being fun for him. If he can’t take you seriously enough to date you properly then he doesn’t deserve your attention. I honestly think if you enter into this fling, your going to end up getting hurt by him. How did you meet?
You’re saying that you are going to have sex with him? Is that what you’re saying? I’ve seen your pic and I read your posts all the time. In my opinion, if you want to have sex with someone, you can afford to be picky. I think you can pick and choose who you want to have sex with. Guys are a dime a dozen. Most guys will have sex with anything that moves or has a pulse. The average guy would have sex with a rock if someone had put lipstick on the rock first.
So pick a guy carefully if you want to have a one-night stand. There’s many guys out there who are willing and available for you. Yeah, I know I’m going to catch heat with many guys on here who disagree with me, but I’ve hung around enough guys to know that what I wrote is pretty close to the truth. Maybe I am misinterpititing your thread. Be careful Ish. Choose wisely.
And in the wise words of Woody Allen:
Quote: “Having sex with someone you don’t know very well is a cold, meaningless experience.
But a far as meaningless experiences go it’s a pretty good one.”
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Does it sound really bad if I say I want to? Because I do.
It doesn’t sound bad at all. It happens. Sometimes it just happens and it’s no big deal. Just make sure you are safe and that you trust the guy and you use protection. Hey, one-night stands are OK. Millions of people couldn’t be wrong. Just don’t make a habit of it.
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I woke up he messages me and I’ve told him to stop messaging me and that I’m at a vulnerable stage in my life
Do you have access to birth control? Would you respect yourself less if you had a fling? If you want to, maybe you should do it. Would it hurt your reputation among people you value? As long as you both know what the relationship is about - if you know what the other’s expectations are - Maybe you should have a fling.
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It’s too late now he’s not messaging me anymore and I no longer have his number
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I got the impression you liked this guy. Maybe he’ll call again.
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That’s the problem I like him and don’t want just the sex. It’s also out of character for me.
That’s one of the problem people with mental illness face.Whenever things don’t go our way/well or we are in doubt,we say we are crazy,depressed,but how are we still be depress/manic when we are listening to the professional who treats us?Its just a excuse to move on to life,that’s my opinion,and TBH I blame the illness sometimes too,but I hope to do it lesser,you guys also
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Believe me your not crazy/manic,your just having negative emotions and self doubt?unless you think your crazy then you really are lol
Btw,what’s the reason you cannot give him a chance?He is like out of your league?
Because he don’t want a relationship at all