I can't do this

I really like spending time with him but I can’t spend too much time with him. I spent from 12 to 4 with him but then I had to come home. Is this even normal? I’m too used to having my own space.

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I can understand this
I often think I’d like a boyfriend really would but in a way I like my own space I would like a man to take me out to dinner and cinema and spend time at weekends

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Yes it is normal, if you are used to being alone

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Yeah it’s normal. Sometimes you just need time and space to miss each other.

I’m the same way. I can only hang out a couple hours with a man. I start to get really stressed out if it’s longer than that.

Totally normal.

Oddly, I found it much easier to live with my co-person than date, because we have separate rooms, don’t expect to have to entertain each other all the time, and can walk away and get some peace any time we like. If I had to spend four straight hours chatting and paying attention and actively interacting with her, I would be absolutely ready to flip out at the end of it.

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i personally hate being alone but that is just me and my partner knows i hate it. we were suppose to clean the apartment together today and tomorrow so we can get it looking nice but she isn’t here.

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Thank you that eases my mind :flushed:

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It’s ok to need some alone time. Make sure he understands your needs and is able to adjust his demands accordingly.
I think you two make a good match so far. Keep looking forward !

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