Those websites are fake man. Most profiles are abandoned. The good looking girls either get picked up quick by their choice or just flee in sight of the barrage.
All the other activity is just the siteās staff keeping the motion stirring until someone is chump enough to give them some money.
You aināt bad looking man. Youāve got the dark Italian complexion going and I know a ton of chicks wouldnāt settle for less.
Just keep your head up, get out there, set no expectations, never turn down a friendly conversation and donāt force yourself into anyoneās life. Youāll gain the property of stoicism, resolve, and respectā¦ itās really all that anyone needs to be in the face of anyone to stand aloneā¦ and itās easy as just going with the flow and doing nothing until your presence is accepted.
Girls sketch themselves out a lot. Itās hard for them to trust anyone for a lot of reasons. Itās especially tough for them to trust stand alone strangers with no tie into their lifeā¦ but it just takes time. I get the feeling youāre a good guy with only good intentions in mind. Some girl will find it sweet to talk to youā¦ and over time that casual stranger bound can become more trusted.
Friendly advice, always wait for it to be clear that they really want itā¦ Getting a number doesnāt mean what a man wants it to mean otherwise.
Protect yourself, always keep your sense of importance level to the situation. It should never be greater, nor lesser.
The day comes when everyone gets that lucky connectionā¦ but they gotta step up to the table. The easy way to remain at the table is just learning to be pleasant and happy with public spacesā¦ capable of accepting all the presences around you having a better (or worse) timeā¦ and learning how to make sure to be optimistic and like yourself and your life at the end of every day.
Lolā¦ Iām frankly feeling exhausted and low because I had a great chat with a girl I hadnāt met beforeā¦ I left a good impression and have been doing all this crap this week to distract myself from it or try to increase my chance of running into herā¦ and franklyā¦ it has crippled my confidenceā¦ it was unnecessaryā¦ Ivāe probably spoiled the casual grounds I stood onā¦ leaving an awkward over hangā¦
Damn thoughā¦ I still canāt believe that happened. The thing is it didā¦ and I gotta let that just be a good thing on itās own. It was an enjoyable experienceā¦ and seeing how it was relatively meaningless I gotta shift my attention to keeping an open mind and just skipping out on the needā¦ get back to finding my character independent of that crap. Talking to girls just happensā¦ it almost sucks talking to the ones I want.
That saidā¦ She will be around, I know I will see her at some point, and I will likely talk to her againā¦ so itās still a good think all aroundā¦ Just gotta get my mind off of it.
I hope you gain some insight from that broā¦ because thatās likely very similar to a state youāre going to be in at some point.
and again you aināt ugly dude.
Take care.